Love

"The single most important aspect in a peaceful divorce is Love, giving freedom to both parties involved and getting a new opportunity to learn and spiritually progress. A partner is a free individual soul, hence a partner never can be bound by any means or contract. Contracts as imposed in many cultures either by the government or religious institutions are empty of any value. To get married as well as to get divorced or separated, Divine Bliss, Love and assistance from God is the only you ever may need. A marriage is a question to be solved by the two parties involved and God as the only witness, as he guides, helps, heals and separates the two if it is for the mutual spiritual benefit. Partnerships should only exist on the basis of true Divine Love, nothing else but Divine Love.

Letting a partner go is a more intense and deeper proof of Love than holding him back and preventing him from getting happy his way. If ever you are in such a situation and still think that you love your partner who wants separation, let him go if you truly love him. Latest when he dies you will loose him anyway. But if you both are spiritually progressing, you both may meet in God and never find any more separation possible and necessary as you both will have learned to love. Love like a child of God made to his image. God never grabs hold on any of his beloved one, he leaves us absolute freedom to part for millions of years and grow up. It is our lesson to learn to love as much as God does and leave everyone wanting a change in peace and remain in love and friendship with him even if he chooses a different way of life or a different partner.

Children may never belong to any of the separating partners. It is their birthright to may have free contact to both parents anytime THEY wish. It should never be influenced by any other person but the children. They have the right to be free and to see and meet any person they want. Remember YOU invited children to come to your family. So it is important to realize that you are a HOST rather than a slave holder. Your children are your guest rather than your prisoners or your property. Any soul - whether the soul has a female or male body, whether the soul has a you baby-body or an adult one - is free at all time. All you need to do is to protect its Divinity, its freedom, its individuality and all its link to other person the child may feel attracted to. Protect the friendship and Love the child has toward others and enable the child to live this love and friendship by seeing the person. Remember the law of karma, whatever you do to others is coming back to you - unless you dissolved anything in Love - or unless Love is anything you ever gave to others. If Love is all you ever did, there is but Love coming back to you. If, however, separation from a beloved one is what you created, then separation from a beloved one is what you may earn somewhere in your souls future.

Christianity and some other religious cultures have caused hundreds of millions of suffering, fighting relationships by putting partners together with a contract that can only be dissolved by the use of lawyers, judges, courts, governments and at worst even the church itself. Suffering that sometimes goes on for hundreds of years, for many incarnations. Learn to take full responsibility of your life yourself, keep others out of your very private decisions and learn and realize true everlasting Love and friendship among partners. Stop considering a partner as being your property. Any soul, any physical being, human and others, is free, absolutely free and always shall remain free. Protect this most valuable gift God gave us, re-establish freedom where it has been lost cultivate and practice your freedom and become an adult child of God. Loving whatever you do, loving whoever you meet, what ever others are doing - Love should be the only feeling you ever have toward all at any time.

If your relationship lacks of true Love and friendship as well as of common interests and goals, then give each other freedom in friendship and Love. In such a situation it may be for the first time in life since hundreds of years that you may be able to prove true Love to someone by letting him / her part in peace and freedom. Give your partner a big hug, wish your partner Love and Divine Bliss and let him go. One day you will for sure meet again, when both of you have learned to love. To love includes the protection and re-establishing of freedom within your environment and any person you ever meet. True life starts far beyond the physical plane, here is the placed to dissolve karma and learn to stop hating, learn to stop fighting, learn to stop possessing others - and start loving all."

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