Thursday, December 17, 2009

Why Nice Guys Finish Last

Why is it that "nice guys" supposedly finish last?

I read something on Wikipedia that I think gives the most accurate answer:

"Tony Clink offers an explanation for why many women are attracted to the jerk rather than the nice guy:

'It's not because women like jerks. Women prefer polite over rude, and attentive over distracted. The problem is the way nice guys present these positive characteristics. In order to appear friendly and romantic, these "nice guys" think they have to turn off their sexuality. They hide their desires in order not to offend, presenting an androgynous, asexual persona. The first impression they give is one of emasculation, weakness, and lack of desire. At best, they confuse the woman as to whether they even find her attractive. That's what jerks offer women that nice guys don't: they're not afraid to be sexual.'"

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nice_guy

It's all about sex. Of course it is!

I think if I want to invite a "nice guy" into my life, I have to look for his sexual energy and encourage him to show it. I'm sure that nice guys have that sexual energy. I just have to look closely for it. I want a nice guy with a mischievious sparkle in his eye!

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